My Home Birth Experience

We did it! We had a positive private home birth without using the NHS in the Northeast of the UK. In 2021 we decided to start a family. As first time parents we had a lot of questions, and I had a lot of worries. After a several unfortunate events took place my faith in the NHS was shaken. So I decided to start to look at alternatives to giving birth in a hospital or maternity unit. We happily settled on having a private home birth, using an independent midwife. I successfully gave birth at home in a birthing pool to our wonderful daughter in September 2022. Looking back, I can honestly say that it was the best decision for our family. Being at home while giving birth was the absolute best decision. There was no awkward hospital transfer while in early labour. I was in a familiar, comfortable environment. I had everything that I needed right there, including drinks and snacks. We could control everything from the lighting to the music. Having a home birth, and a private birth was a truly wonderful experience… so much so we are getting ready to do it again.

For anyone considering an alternative route to the NHS, I would say go for it. The big objection is that things can go wrong. Yes they can, and did for us second time around; but your midwife will be prepared for all possibilities. Do whatever is going to make you feel the most safe and comfortable. For some people that will be a hospital. For me, it was a home birth.